02/26/17 – Keep The Fire Going: Learning to Find Familiarity Intoxicating

Song of Solomon 7:1-10

How beautiful are your feet in sandals,O noble daughter!Your rounded thighs are like jewels,the work of a master hand. 2 Your navel is a rounded bowlthat never lacks mixed wine.Your belly is a heap of wheat,encircled with lilies. 3 Your two breasts are like two fawns,twins of a gazelle. 4 Your neck is like an ivory tower.Your eyes are pools in Heshbon,by the gate of Bath-rabbim.Your nose is like a tower of Lebanon,which looks toward Damascus. 5 Your head crowns you like Carmel,and your flowing locks are like purple;a king is held captive in the tresses. 6 How beautiful and pleasant you are,O loved one, with all your delights! 7 Your stature is like a palm tree,and your breasts are like its clusters. 8 I say I will climb the palm treeand lay hold of its fruit.Oh may your breasts be like clusters of the vine,and the scent of your breath like apples, 9 and your mouth like the best wine.It goes down smoothly for my beloved,gliding over lips and teeth. 10 I am my beloved’s,and his desire is for me.

I.TIME IS NOT A ROMANCE KILLER
A.Don’t buy the lie that the more time together means the reduction of romance.
B.Learn to appreciate what you alone know about your spouse.

II.EMBRACE THE MYSTERY AND THE CHASE
A.Men, turn private time into private eye time. Men, turn chit chat into investigation.
B.Men, don’t stop chasing just because she is caught.

III.BUILD-UP AND ENTICE
A.Ladies, become an expert in construction, not demolition.
B.Ladies, entice your man to go on the hunt for you again.

NEXT STEPS
1.Do the hard work to keep the joy alive in your marriage relationship & your relationship with Jesus. (Psalm 51:12)
2.Don’t let familiarity cause you to assume you already know everything about your spouse or Jesus.
3.Draw near to God and He will come running for you. (James 4:8, Luke 15:11-32)